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Diving Deeper Into Interpersonal Skills

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Social skills are a component of emotional intelligence and can highly influence your work, family, and personal life. People skills are often sought out by companies as one of the most important factors in hiring and maintaining employment. After all, if we can’t get along with those around us, it makes it difficult to get work done. The interpersonal component of EQ affects our lives in a myriad of ways.

Here are a few ways you can utilize interpersonal skills to boost your EQ:

1. Influence

By harboring strong communication, you can impact how influential you are. Not only can this make you more persuasive, but it can also help you in whatever mission you set out to accomplish. When you learn how to hone in on your voice, your message becomes much more impactful. Remember though, that with great power comes great responsibility. Having influence can surely make us powerful, yet it’s how we yield that power that matters.

2. Leadership

Many often want to be a leader, but don’t realize the hard work it takes to be one. Being a leader isn’t about barking orders to subordinates. It’s about inspiring and empower those you work with to accomplish a common goal. Leaders are able to initiate change. They don’t seek out to blame those around them, they seek to solve problems to direct their team to success. A leader is always willing to roll up their sleeves and do the hard work they expect those around them to do. When striving to be a leader, its important to lead by example and maintain emotional intelligence through a crisis. Can you imagine following a leader who doesn’t live by the principles they teach?

3. Conflict Management

Understanding how to negotiate and resolve disagreements can be a tricky business. With strong interpersonal skills, it can be easier to tackle conflict management. It’s not always easy when dealing with others because we can’t control their actions, but we can control how we react.

4. Building Strong Bonds

When we learn how to build strong bonds, we discover the power of nurturing relationships that matter. This can help impact how we collaborate with others and affect how our team cooperates with us. By building a solid connection, its easier for others to work toward shared goals. It increases our capacity for team capabilities and can create a synergy with those we work with.

The way we interact with others can greatly affect us at both work and home. The social skills we develop are an incredibly powerful component of emotional intelligence and can highly influence your work, family, and personal life.

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